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This anxiety is enmeshed with feelings that were triggered several years ago when 11 individuals were killed in the Tree of Life shooting. This is also a critical time for non-Jews to reach out to tell us you see our pain, so we know we are not alone. A native of Atlanta, Talya grew up with South African Jewish parents who imbued her passion for serving the Jewish community.
Reach out to the leaders in your Jewish community, a mental health provider or loved ones for support. With our inability to comprehend why the Colleyville, Texas, incident occurred, we feel powerless, isolated and scared.
Collective trauma can eventually become part of a cultural identity, a narrative and a way of viewing a social group.
I took a deep breath to ground myself in the moment, smelling the incense and looking up at the bright braided candle illuminating the room.
Healing from Collective Trauma
By Talya Gordon
As I recited the Havdalah ceremony this week, a traditional ritual separating the Jewish sabbath from the rest of the week, my body tensed up and my heart started racing.
My hands shook as I turned on my phone; my mind catapulted back to last week, when after the sabbath, I learned four Jews had been taken hostage while praying in a synagogue. Even when I couldn’t find any news, I still felt a lingering sense of uneasiness.
As the days go by, that uneasiness remains at the back of my mind. We must allow ourselves to slow down, feel our emotions and contextualize our experience within the lens of intergenerational collective trauma.
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- Hirschberger G.
(2018). The wound created in Colleyville was unfortunately not new to the Jewish people, but maybe our approach to healing from our collective trauma can change. Frontiers in psychology, 9, 1441. Processing our collective trauma will not happen overnight, but we must start somewhere. While I have compartmentalized the horror I felt at the time by comforting myself with the knowledge that each of the hostages was safely released, I still feel anxious.
Every antisemitic act, whether it is in America or somewhere else in the world, evokes these feelings. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.01441.
- Erikson K. T. (1976).
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Even if you did not know anyone in that synagogue, if you are Jewish, give yourself permission to process the complex feelings the Colleyville incident may have triggered in you.But this is an important moment for Jews to lean on each other to heal, process and provide comfort to one another. Collective Trauma and the Social Construction of Meaning. Everything in its Path. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster.
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Talya Gordon is working on her PhD in clinical health psychology at the Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology, part of Yeshiva University in New York.
This narrative has strengthened the desire to perpetuate the Jewish tradition, but it has also forced us to remain in survival mode for most of our existence. Both Hirschberger’s and Erikson’s definitions poignantly convey the pervasive impact collective trauma can have on a community, since the trauma causes the affected group to feel fear and distrust toward the rest of society.